Did feminism kill chivalry?

I think it did, but I dont know what can be done about it! Men view women as sex objects in such blatant unveiled ways now. In the past, more coverage meant more appeal. Now, if a woman is showing her independance and stating her equality by dressing however she damn well pleases, she is seen as easy, a slut etc. Whatever happpened to men putting their coats over puddles so we could walk without getting the bottoms of our skirts wet? Oh yeah, we're not wearing floor length skirts anymore. But it goes way beyond actions. And it doesnt just have to do with sex. It is a whole change in mannerism and verbalization towards women. "Back in the day" a man spoke to a woman with a certain tone of respect for her sensitivities. I notice that that is no longer the case. Just because a woman is stronger physically and mentally now than ever before does not mean that she is emotionally tougher.

Speak to us as though you care about how your words will affect us. Speak to us as though you care, even if you dont. Heck, speak to us like important clients whose butts you want to kiss if you need a better analogy. Just dont speak to us like we are one of the guys. We want to be treated with kindness and we want you to know that when we tell you in a joking manner "Dont be so mean", we really mean it.

This is a guest post courtesy of the insanity of energynorm :) Enjoy!