Two posts today - Therapy Update and Cruelty (see below)

Sunday at the therapist went well. I feel almost justified in my feelings over the past few years. The therapist felt that my husband needs to come in and that I should encourage him to go. So I told him on Sunday that she has openings on Wednesday evening. I am leaving it up to him to make the appointment though. As much as I understand the logic behind pushing him, I am still not his mother. The therapist would like him to go on a medication which will make him not react as strongly as quickly to things that in reality shouldnt bother him as much as they do. It was, all in all, a pleasant session. I still feel like I need to leave, even if it is just for a short amount of time. The therapist asked me to tell her what my husband could do to get to the point where I would be happy with him, and I simply couldnt answer. Part of it is that I wish he could figure it out on his own. Another part is that I know that no matter what he does, I feel like I need time to heal. That is something he wont agree with. Well, next appointment is Sunday again. Good luck to me!