Mikvah

My husband forgot yesterday that last night was mikvah night. I had to call and be sure he would come home on time so I could get there before they close. Don't get me wrong, the sex is always good. But I feel like I am always the one reminding him about the "be a good Jew" stuff.

Then when I got home after the mikvah (and I told my husband I would be back in an hour) he was on the phone! He hadn't even showered. Aurghhh. How am I supposed to get "in the mood" if he doesn't even seem eager?

Why does that always have to be?